(引用 透明叶:当两个人都对着电话的时候... 有很多可能当面说不出来的话, 在电话里一时冲动都可以讲出来. 这是两地恋很容易失败, 吵架越来越多的重要�...)推究责任只会更糟！~心静，成熟处事！~[不会飞的天使 (4-14 2:19, Long long ago)] [ 传统版 | sForum ][登录后回复]41楼
(引用 足舞:不是冤家不聚头。。。。记得吗，红楼梦里，有一次宝玉和黛玉大吵了一架，贾母痛心疾首的说：“真真是两个小冤家。”
吵架代表着什么呢？�...)精彩剪辑！~ 最重要的是相互尊重，给彼此一点距离和空间，能够包容彼此的不同，包括性格上
的，思想上的，为人处事上的。
无论是你欣赏或不欣赏的，如果能用一种更尊重，更客观，更宽大的胸怀去爱她，我
想一切都会好起来的。
爱情很容易，相处却很难[不会飞的天使 (4-14 2:21, Long long ago)]
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(引用 透明叶:当两个人都对着电话的时候... 有很多可能当面说不出来的话, 在电话里一时冲动都可以讲出来. 这是两地恋很容易失败, 吵架越来越多的重要�...)the best way to avoid this is to talk less,especially via phone. as when u both use phone too often, sometimes u will feel facinating without any pre-notice, and also sometimes, u are in fact not so willing to talk at that point of time, of course there are also many other reasons, like u are playing games. and at those time above, u are very likely to speak out some careless words, which may hurt ur Gal. but on the other hand, u gal may be also a bit easy to get angry, but anyway, u have to bear with this, espicially she is not with u now. u know gal like to imagine what u r doing, sometimes may even ask u too much on what u have done, r doing so that perhaps u eventually get bored. but must be careful, this is the time u have to bear with her. as once u appear anything usual, she may think or confirm that u have got sth hidding behind her! so...u know..just...non-stop urguing...sigh!
but for u this case, the only that can say is that "dun worry!". so long as u confirm that she loves u very much, then millians of little quarrels are also small cake! of course, i say little quarrel, not the big affair like u are dating some other gals behind ur gal... so dun worry, tomoro, call her again! gentelly, softly, mindly to apologize, of course, no matter u were rite or not, u still have to apologize, as u said "u love her!", rite!
hahaa! take it easy! not a big deal! but one thing i agree with u: quarrel due to some non-sense is really making us feel 烦，but no way to avoid, this is just realy life. we are all ordinary ppl, what can we do for this? sigh! i guess when we were younger, we all always thought that we would have a very ideal life, perhaps just like those in the movie! however, i'm sure that all the ppl who have had or having boy/gal friend may feel that quarrel is just so ordinary too. its unit may be per day! hahah.. dun scare u lah...
lastly, if anyone find a way to avoid quarrle btw boy and gal friends, pls let me know! i have been seeking this for long time!
~~banban
[banban (4-14 2:41, Long long ago)]
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(引用 banban:the best way to avoid this is to talk less,especially via phone. as when u both use phone too often, sometimes u will feel facin...)up!~ wat exactly wat i wanna know!~[不会飞的天使 (4-14 2:52, Long long ago)] [ 传统版 | sForum ][登录后回复]44楼
(引用 不会飞的天使:up!~ wat exactly wat i wanna know!~)aiya !~ got one more "wat"!~typing mistake[不会飞的天使 (4-14 2:53, Long long ago)] [ 传统版 | sForum ][登录后回复]45楼
俩礼拜别联系，看谁先放下身段找对方。[花心大哥 (4-14 6:28, Long long ago)] [ 传统版 | sForum ][登录后回复]46楼
(引用 花心大哥:俩礼拜别联系，看谁先放下身段找对方。)这跟身段没关系吧总觉得感情是经不起考验的, 要考验的话也就不真了.....喜欢一个人, 又何必在意身段呢...[妖精小熏 (4-14 7:17, Long long ago)] [ 传统版 | sForum ][登录后回复]47楼
(引用 足舞:不是冤家不聚头。。。。记得吗，红楼梦里，有一次宝玉和黛玉大吵了一架，贾母痛心疾首的说：“真真是两个小冤家。” 吵架代表着什么呢？�...)(Y)!!![felix (4-14 9:21, Long long ago)] [ 传统版 | sForum ][登录后回复]48楼
(引用 妖精小熏:这跟身段没关系吧总觉得感情是经不起考验的, 要考验的话也就不真了.....喜欢一个人, 又何必在意身段呢...)经历不同吧……[花心大哥 (4-14 9:42, Long long ago)] [ 传统版 | sForum ][登录后回复]49楼
(引用 花心大哥:俩礼拜别联系，看谁先放下身段找对方。)支持！！大哥说话就是强[啸傲苍生 (4-14 15:15, Long long ago)] [ 传统版 | sForum ][登录后回复]50楼
(引用 足舞:不是冤家不聚头。。。。记得吗，红楼梦里，有一次宝玉和黛玉大吵了一架，贾母痛心疾首的说：“真真是两个小冤家。” 吵架代表着什么呢？�...)说的有理，推！[啸傲苍生 (4-14 15:41, Long long ago)] [ 传统版 | sForum ][登录后回复]51楼