好伤心,为什么总是事与愿违!~?
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作者:banban (等级:6 - 驾轻就熟,发帖:2772) 发表:2003-04-14 02:41:35  43楼 
当两个人都对着电话的时候... 有很多可能当面说不出来的话, 在电话里一时冲动都可以讲出来. 这是两地恋很容易失败, 吵架越来越多的重要原因之一. 两地恋是世界上比较无奈的几件事情之一, 有很多朋友都说玩不起"遥控爱情". 就像此时此刻的你, 如果你在她身边抱着她, 有什么事不可以慢慢的说出来, 慢慢的解释呢? 可是现在两个人都心如刀割的在辗转反侧. 当两个人都心存怒气的时候, 两地恋的种种不好都会涌上心头. 但是, 既然你们决定了要坚持, 既然彼此都放不下那份尽管看起来缺乏完美的感情, 就不要因为一时冲动而破坏掉两人苦心经营的那份感情. 吵架的时候多想想快乐的时候, 不要一直去想到底是谁对谁不对. 平静下来, 想想怎么去补救这份感情, 不要只顾着伤心欲绝. 或者给彼此一点时间冷静, 千万不要在这个时候作出任何决定.
the best way to avoid this is to talk less,
especially via phone. as when u both use phone too often, sometimes u will feel facinating without any pre-notice, and also sometimes, u are in fact not so willing to talk at that point of time, of course there are also many other reasons, like u are playing games. and at those time above, u are very likely to speak out some careless words, which may hurt ur Gal. but on the other hand, u gal may be also a bit easy to get angry, but anyway, u have to bear with this, espicially she is not with u now. u know gal like to imagine what u r doing, sometimes may even ask u too much on what u have done, r doing so that perhaps u eventually get bored. but must be careful, this is the time u have to bear with her. as once u appear anything usual, she may think or confirm that u have got sth hidding behind her! so...u know..just...non-stop urguing...sigh!

but for u this case, the only that can say is that "dun worry!". so long as u confirm that she loves u very much, then millians of little quarrels are also small cake! of course, i say little quarrel, not the big affair like u are dating some other gals behind ur gal... so dun worry, tomoro, call her again! gentelly, softly, mindly to apologize, of course, no matter u were rite or not, u still have to apologize, as u said "u love her!", rite!


hahaa! take it easy! not a big deal! but one thing i agree with u: quarrel due to some non-sense is really making us feel 烦,but no way to avoid, this is just realy life. we are all ordinary ppl, what can we do for this? sigh! i guess when we were younger, we all always thought that we would have a very ideal life, perhaps just like those in the movie! however, i'm sure that all the ppl who have had or having boy/gal friend may feel that quarrel is just so ordinary too. its unit may be per day! hahah.. dun scare u lah...


lastly, if anyone find a way to avoid quarrle btw boy and gal friends, pls let me know! i have been seeking this for long time!

~~banban
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