当两个人都对着电话的时候... 有很多可能当面说不出来的话, 在电话里一时冲动都可以讲出来. 这是两地恋很容易失败, 吵架越来越多的重要原因之一.
两地恋是世界上比较无奈的几件事情之一, 有很多朋友都说玩不起"遥控爱情". 就像此时此刻的你, 如果你在她身边抱着她, 有什么事不可以慢慢的说出来, 慢慢的解释呢? 可是现在两个人都心如刀割的在辗转反侧. 当两个人都心存怒气的时候, 两地恋的种种不好都会涌上心头.
但是, 既然你们决定了要坚持, 既然彼此都放不下那份尽管看起来缺乏完美的感情, 就不要因为一时冲动而破坏掉两人苦心经营的那份感情.
吵架的时候多想想快乐的时候, 不要一直去想到底是谁对谁不对. 平静下来, 想想怎么去补救这份感情, 不要只顾着伤心欲绝.
或者给彼此一点时间冷静, 千万不要在这个时候作出任何决定.
the best way to avoid this is to talk less,
especially via phone. as when u both use phone too often, sometimes u will feel facinating without any pre-notice, and also sometimes, u are in fact not so willing to talk at that point of time, of course there are also many other reasons, like u are playing games. and at those time above, u are very likely to speak out some careless words, which may hurt ur Gal. but on the other hand, u gal may be also a bit easy to get angry, but anyway, u have to bear with this, espicially she is not with u now. u know gal like to imagine what u r doing, sometimes may even ask u too much on what u have done, r doing so that perhaps u eventually get bored. but must be careful, this is the time u have to bear with her. as once u appear anything usual, she may think or confirm that u have got sth hidding behind her! so...u know..just...non-stop urguing...sigh!
but for u this case, the only that can say is that "dun worry!". so long as u confirm that she loves u very much, then millians of little quarrels are also small cake! of course, i say little quarrel, not the big affair like u are dating some other gals behind ur gal... so dun worry, tomoro, call her again! gentelly, softly, mindly to apologize, of course, no matter u were rite or not, u still have to apologize, as u said "u love her!", rite!
hahaa! take it easy! not a big deal! but one thing i agree with u: quarrel due to some non-sense is really making us feel 烦,but no way to avoid, this is just realy life. we are all ordinary ppl, what can we do for this? sigh! i guess when we were younger, we all always thought that we would have a very ideal life, perhaps just like those in the movie! however, i'm sure that all the ppl who have had or having boy/gal friend may feel that quarrel is just so ordinary too. its unit may be per day! hahah.. dun scare u lah...
lastly, if anyone find a way to avoid quarrle btw boy and gal friends, pls let me know! i have been seeking this for long time!
~~banban
but for u this case, the only that can say is that "dun worry!". so long as u confirm that she loves u very much, then millians of little quarrels are also small cake! of course, i say little quarrel, not the big affair like u are dating some other gals behind ur gal... so dun worry, tomoro, call her again! gentelly, softly, mindly to apologize, of course, no matter u were rite or not, u still have to apologize, as u said "u love her!", rite!
hahaa! take it easy! not a big deal! but one thing i agree with u: quarrel due to some non-sense is really making us feel 烦,but no way to avoid, this is just realy life. we are all ordinary ppl, what can we do for this? sigh! i guess when we were younger, we all always thought that we would have a very ideal life, perhaps just like those in the movie! however, i'm sure that all the ppl who have had or having boy/gal friend may feel that quarrel is just so ordinary too. its unit may be per day! hahah.. dun scare u lah...
lastly, if anyone find a way to avoid quarrle btw boy and gal friends, pls let me know! i have been seeking this for long time!
~~banban