the best way to avoid this is to talk less,especially via phone. as when u both use phone too often, sometimes u will feel facinating without any pre-notice, and also sometimes, u are in fact not so willing to talk at that point of time, of course there are also many other reasons, like u are playing games. and at those time above, u are very likely to speak out some careless words, which may hurt ur Gal. but on the other hand, u gal may be also a bit easy to get angry, but anyway, u have to bear with this, espicially she is not with u now. u know gal like to imagine what u r doing, sometimes may even ask u too much on what u have done, r doing so that perhaps u eventually get bored. but must be careful, this is the time u have to bear with her. as once u appear anything usual, she may think or confirm that u have got sth hidding behind her! so...u know..just...non-stop urguing...sigh! but for u this case, the only that can say is that "dun worry!". so long as u confirm that she loves u very much, then mill (more...)