You must have expressed various opinionated comments over the notorious entrance exams in china, the torturing 1500 meter race in high school, some of the shit soccer teams, or some pirated makeups that do not work.
To the people who have had it, they would say, ' yes, I have experienced that too. The 1500 meter running is just too deadly.'. We express some similar sentiments over the same thing.
But for those we have not tried it, no matter how deadly it is, they should not be stopped from trying it. They need to experienced it after all. No matter how we describe it, they only get it after they have tried.
Our comments, somehow, are not indicative to them newbies.
Welcome to the club!