赶紧离婚让你老婆嫁个好人家
然后再找个小妹，两全其美
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[very3b (11-18 14:17, Long long ago)]
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(引用 yoselin:家庭开销由男方负责,我身边大多数女性都这么想,难道换一个会更好?)好奇这个，开销全部男方负责，女方的钱呢，全是自己收着？我身边真是一个这样的都没有，问一下开销全部男方负责，女方和男方的薪水比例大概多少？虽然我是女的，都觉得这样对老公好不公平啊。我要是男的，我的钱都花了，老婆的钱都自己存了自己花，结什么婚啊，这是傻子吧。[date123 (11-18 14:59, Long long ago)] [ 传统版 | sForum ][登录后回复]42楼
(引用 date123:好奇这个，开销全部男方负责，女方的钱呢，全是自己收着？我身边真是一个这样的都没有，问一下开销全部男方负责，女方和男方的薪水比例大...)所谓开销也是指家庭开销,水电网电视,家具等,一起在外面吃饭也是男方付钱女方的钱是自己存着的,因为女方没有安全感,当然不至于到要男方付女方日常生活费.男女双方薪水都算中上.我认为女性没有安全感的很多,年龄越来越大,男人35,40还可以找20的小姑娘,女方一但离开这个婚姻面临的社会压力不是一般的可怕.从生理方面来看同样的是女性更没有安全感.[yoselin (11-18 15:11, Long long ago)] [ 传统版 | sForum ][登录后回复]43楼
(引用 yoselin:所谓开销也是指家庭开销,水电网电视,家具等,一起在外面吃饭也是男方付钱女方的钱是自己存着的,因为女方没有安全感,当然不至于到要男方付�...)这算什么安全感啊如果女方自己有工作，就算离开男人也活得下去啊。 [本文发送自华新iOS APP] [vililytan (11-18 16:24, Long long ago)] [ 传统版 | sForum ][登录后回复]44楼
(引用 date123:好奇这个，开销全部男方负责，女方的钱呢，全是自己收着？我身边真是一个这样的都没有，问一下开销全部男方负责，女方和男方的薪水比例大...)有这样的女生同学的老婆比楼主的还甚，不仅钱款往丈母娘家带，而且有次把儿子带回娘家，说要看儿子的话，让他带上现金过去...
同学的老婆家中有养父的弟弟要买房...，养父很凶，而且好吃懒做的那种；感觉世界之大，无奇不有；
现在不知道怎样了；听说两个人分居很久了
[路易十三 (11-18 17:15, Long long ago)]
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(引用 赶超美日:关于婚后财产的迷思1. 新加坡妇女宪章 “matrimonial asset” means — (a) any asset acquired before the marriage by one party or b ...)你给总结一下？ [本文发送自华新iOS APP] [凡人 (11-18 23:48, Long long ago)] [ 传统版 | sForum ][登录后回复]46楼
楼主不妨把工作辞了在家闲坐几个月， 看看反应这几个月估计各种事情都会来，你受得了那就继续， 受不了就要思考人生了，人生还有好几十年[abcxyz2 (11-19 0:20, Long long ago)] [ 传统版 | sForum ][登录后回复]47楼
(引用 date123:好奇这个，开销全部男方负责，女方的钱呢，全是自己收着？我身边真是一个这样的都没有，问一下开销全部男方负责，女方和男方的薪水比例大...)有这样的人的。小毛驴自己 [本文发送自华新iOS APP] [love962397 (11-19 6:11, Long long ago)] [ 传统版 | sForum ][登录后回复]48楼
(引用 路易十三:有这样的女生同学的老婆比楼主的还甚，不仅钱款往丈母娘家带，而且有次把儿子带回娘家，说要看儿子的话，让他带上现金过去... 同学的老婆...)开眼界了[date123 (11-19 9:58, Long long ago)] [ 传统版 | sForum ][登录后回复]49楼
(引用 vililytan:这算什么安全感啊如果女方自己有工作，就算离开男人也活得下去啊。)是啊，安全感是自己挣的，靠别人给的都不靠谱自己会赚钱，过得精神漂亮，还需要巴巴的留着大笔私房钱给自己找安全感嘛。[date123 (11-19 10:02, Long long ago)] [ 传统版 | sForum ][登录后回复]50楼
(引用 凡人:你给总结一下？)一句话总结：婚姻的长度。一般而言，短期各拿各的，超长期平分，越长越趋向平分。Loh Swee Peng v Chan Kui Kok [2015] SGHC 64
The factor which weighs most strongly with me is that this is, by any measure, a very long marriage. At the date of the hearing, the marriage had endured for 42 years. The longevity of the emotional, parental, social and economic bond between the spouses is to my mind a very weighty factor that overshadows all others. In particular, it causes the importance of the precise ratio of the parties’ direct contributions which were made decades earlier and which I am now attempting assess decades later on imperfect and incomplete evidence to recede into the background. The length of the marriage is a factor which points towards the just and equitable division of the matrimonial assets being an equal division.
Dong Jianrong v Jiang Huaguo [2015] SGHC 56
Equality of division is neither ideal nor the norm (Lock Yeng Fun v Chua Hock Chye[2007] 3 SLR(R) 520 at [55]), but for long marriages such as this, the courts tend to lean towards equality of division. That is because there is no formula or means to determine the differential between the financial and non-financial contribution of the parties with precision. An equal division is also probably the closest the court can effect the parties’ declaration in their matrimonial vow of treating themselves as one.
Wong Sook Kuen v Loh Choon Fah [2015] SGHC 36
Equality of division is neither ideal nor the norm (Lock Yeng Fun v Chua Hock Chye [2007] 3 SLR(R) 520 at [55]), but for long marriages such as this, the courts tend to lean towards equality of division. That is because there is no formula or means to determine the differential between the financial and non-financial contribution of the parties with precision. An equal division is also probably the closest the court can effect the parties’ declaration in their matrimonial vow of treating themselves as one. Thus in the absence of a better formula, the court will consider equality as justice.
AOB v AOC [2015] SGHC 13
The parties have been married for more than 20 years. Equality of division is neither ideal nor the norm (Lock Yeng Fun v Chua Hock Chye [2007] 3 SLR(R) 520 at [55]), but for long marriages such as this, the courts tend to lean towards equality of division. That is because there is no formula or means to determine the differential between the financial and non-financial contribution of the parties with precision. An equal division is also probably the closest the court can effect the parties’ declaration in their matrimonial vow of treating themselves as one. Thus in the absence of a better formula, the court will consider equality as justice.
Wong Kien Keong v Khoo Hoon Eng [2013] SGHC 275
96 I observed that in most of the cases identified in the sample above, where the wife received 35% of the matrimonial assets, the marriage was generally less than 20 years. On the other hand, for marriages more than 20 years, the wife was awarded 40%.
[赶超美日 (11-19 11:07, Long long ago)]
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(引用 凡人:你给总结一下？)公式：weightage of 65% (FC): 35% (NFC)Teh Kah Weng David v Chow Lai Meng Nina [2015] SGHC 84
49 In this case, the Defendant provided 92.2% of the financial contribution and 90% of the non-financial contribution.
51 In the present case, I gave a weightage of 65% to the respective financial contributions and a weightage of 35% to the respective non-financial contributions of the parties.
52 Applying this weightage of 65% (financial contributions): 35% (non-financial contributions) to the Defendant’s financial contribution of 92.2% and to the Defendant’s non-financial contribution of 90%, I obtained a “single overall ratio” of 91.43%
[赶超美日 (11-19 11:11, Long long ago)]
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离婚吧，趁还早。 [本文发送自华新iOS APP] [17eye (11-19 12:20, Long long ago)] [ 传统版 | sForum ][登录后回复]53楼
你是想要人还是要钱呢想要过就不要抱怨啊，想要钱就离婚喽，女的存钱保护自己没有错啊，年纪大了，万一你跟她离婚了，至少她还可以靠自己啊，男人哪怕78十岁，只要会赚钱总还是找的到老婆的，就为了自己月光而觉得女方存钱不公平，迟早过不下去的啦。[哎呀我倒 (11-19 17:03, Long long ago)] [ 传统版 | sForum ][登录后回复]54楼
还能给男方买一件衣服，算是很体贴了。[materialist (11-19 22:36, Long long ago)] [ 传统版 | sForum ][登录后回复]55楼
哈哈哈话说我们家一切开销都老公出的，我自己只是偶尔买点小东西。
不过这不是我的主意，这是我老公的主意。他觉得，花一个人的工资，存一个人的工资，比较好。而且我的帐号、密码之类的，他都知道，他是随时可以登陆我的帐号的。
但我却不知我老公的帐号和密码，哈哈
尽管如此，我们两人也不觉得不妥，反正两人都是一心为了家庭的，花钱也是为家庭花、攒钱也是为家庭攒，花谁的攒谁的都无所谓。
所以说到底，问题的核心是你们对于家庭是不是一条心，对彼此有没有足够的信任。钱怎么安排，怎么花，只是外在形式而已。
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[林子99 (11-20 9:04, Long long ago)]
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(引用 林子99:哈哈哈话说我们家一切开销都老公出的，我自己只是偶尔买点小东西。
不过这不是我的主意，这是我老公的主意。他觉得，花一个人的工资，存...)我们家也是全由我负责的从结婚第一天起自动就这样了，不过不养车不养儿的话一个月的开销没多少钱吧，谁出不一样呢？
我们家每个月除了养车和娃的托儿费用就没什么大开销了，养车肯定得我出是吧，托儿费用我乐意出。
楼主与其想家里的开销怎么跟老婆分账，不如多想想怎么多挣点钱啊。至少你老婆没有让你每个月上交全部工资，据我所知男方上交全部工资的家庭也是有不少的。
我老婆时不时还会给我开开罚单，比如说拖地没有拖干净，或者是饭做的难吃了，或者是晒了被子没有在下雨前收回来。请问其他家庭有类似情况吗？[滚雪球 (11-21 22:27, Long long ago)]
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(引用 滚雪球:我们家也是全由我负责的从结婚第一天起自动就这样了，不过不养车不养儿的话一个月的开销没多少钱吧，谁出不一样呢？
我们家每个月除了养�...)哈哈哈哈哈哈我家老公要是来一贴家务这块估计比你惨点。
因为我早上六点多出门晚上七八点才回家。周末竖着过的时间屈指可数。活基本他干了。我真的每天都累的不行。
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(引用 hdeksa:哈哈哈哈哈哈我家老公要是来一贴家务这块估计比你惨点。 因为我早上六点多出门晚上七八点才回家。周末竖着过的时间屈指可数。活基本他干�...)这个我们比你好我们全家每天早上8点一起出门，然后晚上7-8点一起到家。我会送宝宝去幼儿园，送宝妈去上班，下班后接宝宝和宝妈。我就是开车开的有点累，每天都要开100公里，我还不如去美国工作呢，我美国同事每天也就开60公里。[滚雪球 (11-21 22:50, Long long ago)] [ 传统版 | sForum ][登录后回复]59楼
如果换成是男的什么都拿，什么都不出，你觉得如何？个人认为，婚姻里女人是弱者，男人有钱就。。。。 所以如果这样还是让男人让步比较好。
要不， 你觉得AA制是否可以接受，反正就3种：
ＡＡ， 男人付， 女人付。 不过最后一点，对女人危险很大。因为男人有钱就。。。
见到家庭好的都是男的负担，反而那种要求ＡＡ的，家庭就一般，或者离婚， 至于全部女的出，ＯＫ ，很好，一定离婚， 除非女的能忍耐养个有多个小蜜的男方[rim (11-23 11:52, Long long ago)]
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