我承认了是我的错，整个过程中我没有说一句话，问题是这个人的态度我给老板的email里说的很清楚： I know he was doing his job, I also have no problem with the penalty because it was my fault at first place。 我的观点也很明了; but the way he communicated to me made me really feel threatened and demeaned, we were also doing our work, we will be working onsite for another 3 to 4 months, we do cherish mutual respect instead of a hostile work environment! Since he can behave like this to a person he never met before, I can't imagine how arrogant and rude he will be in the future.