有棋友提醒，无奈再回这个贴并申明。sech请别介意，这是好坏掺拌的事，任何故事都要有结局，我反而喜欢这个结局。
我写的基本只对事不对人，由于我认识对方，顾虑厉害关系所以不会把话讲绝了，只希望把意思用最直接方式传达出就算了，反而有时对方因为不认识我，讲得不是很高级，甚至放话挑战。两天前我上网接受挑战了，居然没人上来骂我，论坛挑战我的人只敢在旁看，跟我下棋和搭话的反而是那些虚心要学棋和支持我的。有位个年轻甲级棋手在不认识我的情况下，甚至叫我尽管批评他的棋的弱点，好帮他进步。我的棋并不胜与他，但仍然说出了看法供他参考。
用bls是方便把想说的话说出来，对我来讲只有痛快，没有后悔，有谁想验证我的棋力的话，尽管来网上决高下。
我的退出跟面子无关，确实是抗议一刀版主的不公正，和反对那‘妈妈论词’。如果有谁认为那‘妈妈论词’没什么，那请用在自己身上吧。
最后在此声明，不希望吾入棋途关闭，不希望棋一生为我退出，不希望卷兄退出。我不过是棋界的小卒罢了。。。
I am wondering why you are still talking a lot on 棋力 at this moment
Is the issue about 棋力？ No, not at all !
You cannot simply evaluate a person by his棋力, but actually as we seen, you often did so For example,. You talked on the level difference between Cabbage and GM Ng, you said Master Kng is a lower Grade A player, you said Ji Du never got Top 8 in Grade A, and you named another player as 9-lose what, etc. Yes, all these you have mentioned before are ture, but It was not polite or respectful to be saying so. When you were talking about their weakness in 棋力, and ignoring their contribution to chess, how would you wish to win others’ respect?
The more you talk on one thing, shows the more you care about the thing or the more you are accomplished in the thing. So is it because you care about 棋力 more than contribution, or you are accomplished in 棋力 but short of contribution? When you were not showing enough respect to their contribution or not enough 修养 to their 棋力, how would you wish to be treated with respect and 修养 by them？己所不欲勿施于人。
Personally I don’t think One Knife’s words were towards your Mum, you may think by another way, if you treat everyone like your Mum, be polite and respectful, you will win a wide measure of toleration. The way how you are, determines the way how you think. Think about, why One Knife is polite to the rest of 棋友, but you think he's not polite to you? Is it because you are different from the others?
Last but not least, I believe you are still welcomed by all the 棋友 here, as 火影, but not as bls. I believe you still can receive the greetings from One Knife, like everyone first time joining 悟入棋途 (except me, still haven’t received my peach…)
You cannot simply evaluate a person by his棋力, but actually as we seen, you often did so For example,. You talked on the level difference between Cabbage and GM Ng, you said Master Kng is a lower Grade A player, you said Ji Du never got Top 8 in Grade A, and you named another player as 9-lose what, etc. Yes, all these you have mentioned before are ture, but It was not polite or respectful to be saying so. When you were talking about their weakness in 棋力, and ignoring their contribution to chess, how would you wish to win others’ respect?
The more you talk on one thing, shows the more you care about the thing or the more you are accomplished in the thing. So is it because you care about 棋力 more than contribution, or you are accomplished in 棋力 but short of contribution? When you were not showing enough respect to their contribution or not enough 修养 to their 棋力, how would you wish to be treated with respect and 修养 by them？己所不欲勿施于人。
Personally I don’t think One Knife’s words were towards your Mum, you may think by another way, if you treat everyone like your Mum, be polite and respectful, you will win a wide measure of toleration. The way how you are, determines the way how you think. Think about, why One Knife is polite to the rest of 棋友, but you think he's not polite to you? Is it because you are different from the others?
Last but not least, I believe you are still welcomed by all the 棋友 here, as 火影, but not as bls. I believe you still can receive the greetings from One Knife, like everyone first time joining 悟入棋途 (except me, still haven’t received my peach…)
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