看到讨论凤凰男，我的一点看法所有有小资倾向的女生，都应该杜绝和凤凰男在一起。第一，凤凰男的成长背景注定他在生活上比较节省，即使你不花他的钱，他看到你买东西也会心惊肉跳，有些凤凰男就如楼下几个帖子里面所说的，对于钱财特别有控制欲望。不单单想要控制他的钱，还有你的钱。 其次，凤凰男的家人也是不好相处的。因为教育背景的原因，很多凤凰男的家人蛮横起来是很恐怖的。如果你和凤凰男有冲突，不要想他的家人会站在你这边。 所以这年头，门当户对是王道。 小资女一定要找一个小资男，小农男一定要找个小农女

a! good butthe intriguing dichotomy in your last paragraph is not exhaustive, some categories are inevitably left out. If, as evinced in your statement, only male/female members from bourgeois and peasantry are concerned, do you mean that members from gentry and proletarian are out of your scope? nevertheless your sonorous conclusion should be totally acknowledged.

o sound!this is the most cogent, to avoid using simplistic, description of Hsiaotzu. The succinctness conceals many important characteristics.

pls pardon my englishbut i dont understand whether u agree or not to my statement. the first sentence seems like you felt my description of xiao zi is very relevant and pertinent. but ur 2nd sentence seems like you dont really agree on my definition as it left out some important characteristics of xiao zi. Let whichever be the case, what i tried to say was if you had those characteristics, you would be VERY LIKELY a xiao zi. well, what i am trying to express is, love cant compromise anything; love cant compromise the differences due to different background. And if you can choose a simple life , find someone compatible, why do u want to make life difficult and trying to succumb the difference betw u and ur partner?

看到讨论凤凰男，我的一点看法所有有小资倾向的女生，都应该杜绝和凤凰男在一起。第一，凤凰男的成长背景注定他在生活上比较节省，即使你不花他的钱，他看到你买东西也会心惊肉跳，有些凤凰男就如楼下几个帖子里面所说的，对于钱财特别有控制欲望。不单单想要控制他的钱，还有你的钱。 其次，凤凰男的家人也是不好相处的。因为教育背景的原因，很多凤凰男的家人蛮横起来是很恐怖的。如果你和凤凰男有冲突，不要想他的家人会站在你这边。 所以这年头，门当户对是王道。 小资女一定要找一个小资男，小农男一定要找个小农女

你这么想变成煎饼么？

我想想觉得：1。不错！ 2。你（10有89）是国大的。 3。还没想好。

总而言之， 不能嫁一个让父母哭泣的男人不懂事的男人， 哎