这女生够可怜的没有找到工作，有点自暴自弃心态，说明她社会适应能力和心理承受能力都有限。另外没有找到一个有担当的成熟男人做丈夫，运气也不是很好。她就是我们芸芸众生普通女孩当中的一个，所以得到这么多回帖。
值得讨论的不是这个女生该不该养-因为该不该，是主观愿意不愿意，当这个问题被拿出来问，用到‘养’这个词语的时候，已经是把这个女孩，以及女孩的父母的尊严都完全踩在脚下了。这里根本不存在事实正确，抑或是义理正确的考量，而是到了是可忍，孰不可忍的生死地步。
我的建议是直接把这个主贴拿给女孩看，撕下温情脉脉的面纱，给她看看丈夫的懊恼，直面自己被放在老公良心砧板上的惨状，然后决定是要爆发做个大写的人，还是要做条摇尾乞怜的宠物狗。
贱者虽自贱，重之若千钧。人无论到了什么穷途末路上，都必须有绝不可触及的底线。
i dont think the guy really minds to support her financially
but rather think further.
see where all this thing goes to.
which make him feel depress. and i dont think "chat and meeting cyber frid" is a sign that the gal enjoy the life style now.
so someoen need to cut the crap and encourage her/him to strike back. keep working on it~
until problem solved. the peaceful mind will be reinstalled for both of them
see where all this thing goes to.
which make him feel depress. and i dont think "chat and meeting cyber frid" is a sign that the gal enjoy the life style now.
so someoen need to cut the crap and encourage her/him to strike back. keep working on it~
until problem solved. the peaceful mind will be reinstalled for both of them
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