Don't blame him. He is already in a great sorrowEveryone here wants and needs a partner. Every man needs a woman. (not for special cases) However, there are more chinese(PRC) boy students than girl students in singapore. Hence, there must be someone who will engage in a foreign love if he insist his normal feeling. Basially, Chinese do not speak good english here. This guy can get a white girl and other races, it is really enviable. I agree with you that it is not to betray PRC if he has foreign friends or even no chinese friends. At this time, he should calm down. No one said he is a rubbish. "every man is created equally", let me quote this saying. Be confident.