她在国内有自己的工作，自己的朋友，为了你朋友，她放弃了一切，来到这里。 这里大部分工作都需要英文的，你说她能怎么办？

“因为女人除了工作之外，还有很多比工作更重要的事情。 比如相夫教子， 比如个人保养，比如治家。。。“


为什么女生要相夫教子？ 我觉得在同等学历，同样都工作的情况下，没有说谁的responsibility in running house chores is more

记得我那个时候是写 一个女人一定要经济上独立，不然的话不能得到丈夫还有孩子相应的尊重。而且她如果不工作的话还有可能和社会脱节。 看来那个时候的想法还是正确的

what a pity for all women. Now it seems tt it s solely woman's responsibility to propagate species and to hellp men to carry their family names simply becuz women are genetically fit to do this job.

their wives are working also. but the husbands just leave all the child care job to wives.
sigh.

"女人最好的时候给了男人, 什么什么的, 难得女人的价值就只体现在外表上? 她为社会,和男人贡献的只能是她某段时间的外表? 这不是对女人的歧视嘛? 为什么女人认同这点呢,女权哪去了?, 分手费, 生活费, 怎么搞出来的? "

haha ,it s becuz of the stereotype of the society and the root of evil is still in men. I just give u some examples here, divorced men are much easier to marry off than a divorced women ; a couple broke up when they are 30, the man has no difficulty finding another another girl but the woman encounters some troubles cuz of her age. Well , we are talking abt equality here . I still feel that when women asking for breaking up fees or watever is still not breaking the rule of equality. cuz of the societal view has made women to be at a disavantageous position. Even monetary compensations cannot count for those intangible losses to women . In a word , no matter how hard women are fighting for equality, women are still not really equal with men.

sarcastic ah?

在办公室看华新果然很刺激