haha ,it s becuz of the stereotype of the society and the root of evil is still in men. I just give u some examples here, divorced men are much easier to marry off than a divorced women ; a couple broke up when they are 30, the man has no difficulty finding another another girl but the woman encounters some troubles cuz of her age. Well , we are talking abt equality here . I still feel that when women asking for breaking up fees or watever is still not breaking the rule of equality. cuz of the societal view has made women to be at a disavantageous position. Even monetary compensations cannot count for those intangible losses to women . In a word , no matter how hard women are fighting for equality, women are still not really equal with men.