本来我还不介意适当的时机断奶，偏偏这段时间三大姑八大姨都在念我断说我的奶不新鲜了？次奥，我就偏不断 Why Mothers Nurse Their Children into Toddlerhood by Norma Jane Bumgarner When I ask mothers who have nursed longer than a year why they chose to do so, they usually say, "It just seemed natural," or, "He seemed to need it still." Some mothers, taking their cues from the child rather than the calendar, say, "I never even thought about it." One mother describes the way she felt about her child's continued nursing: "I knew and felt her need for me and her desire to nurse. I love her, and it would break my own heart to disappoint her and refuse myself to her." If we look past all the social rules, and look at the children these rules are supposed to benefit, as did this mother, it is not difficult to see the need our children have for continued nursing - their joy in nursing and their distress when it is denied. A simple but compelling reason for continuing to nurse is to please the child. More and more mothers (more...)

求助帖：悲催的妈想解决娃喝奶睡觉的问题我家宝宝马上18个月了。从她出生后一直是母乳 + 跟我同床睡。她3个多月我开始上班后，每天晚上我回家给她喂完奶，因为我太累，娘俩就直接都睡着了，她从此养成了奶睡的习惯。一个晚上她会叫唤2-3次，但是没有睁开眼，而我也一直偷懒，直接亲喂，让她继续睡。这种情况一直持续到最近，因为准备断奶，也想培养她自己睡觉，所以开始改变睡前模式，变成吃奶、洗澡、看书、睡觉。娃有时表现好，睡前不亲喂，她也就嚷嚷一会儿，自己睡着。但有时就是不肯自己睡，折腾到凌晨1点多。 其实娃是可以自己睡的，白天不用我喂奶能自己睡，有时需要人抱抱才可以睡着，但是有时自己在床上多翻几次也睡着了。 我的理解是，她需要RT比需要喝奶多，RT就是她的pacifier，含着她就睡着了。因为我们试过睡前给她用奶瓶喝奶，但是她不怎么喝，还是吵着要我喂。我下午6点多才挤完奶，到晚上睡觉10点左右其实并没有产生多少奶，而且现在每天晚上回家，都被她拉着要先吃奶，才肯放我去吃饭。。。555。。。她就是依恋RT。 而且她这么大了也从来没有睡过整夜，我也跟着没有整夜觉睡。。。累啊。。。 姐妹们有什么好办法，让娃断夜奶，再断奶？谢谢！！！