顾问性家长Ineffective Parenting Styles:
Helicopter Parents—They hover over
and then rescue their children whenever
trouble arises. They’re always
pulling their children out of jams.
Turbo-Attack Helicopter Model—
These parents, in their zeal to protect
their young, swoop down like jetpowered
AH-64 Apache attack
helicopters on any person or agency
they see as a threat to their child’s
impeccable credentials.
Drill Sergeant Parents—They feel that
the more they bark and the more they
control, the better their kids will be in
the long run.
Effective Parenting Style:
Consultant Parents—They ask their
children questions and offer choices.
Instead of telling their children what
to do, they put the burden of decision
making on their kids’ shoulders.
我觉得象牛妈这样的。。
付出了,一直在看到问题,尽力解决问题,让孩子能有一个好的性格,就是个好妈妈。。。孩子又何谓平庸不平庸? 根据孩子的性格,让他能够有自己的发展,有判断的能力,与人为善的心,大概就够了。。
如果孩子不平庸是父母引以为豪的资本,而因为孩子所谓成绩不好的“平庸”而感到没面子,拿大概就是没必要了。。。
孩子有逆反心理的时期,引导他正确的观念,才是最重要的把。
如果孩子不平庸是父母引以为豪的资本,而因为孩子所谓成绩不好的“平庸”而感到没面子,拿大概就是没必要了。。。
孩子有逆反心理的时期,引导他正确的观念,才是最重要的把。