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作者:妈妈宝宝 (等级:4 - 马马虎虎,发帖:1281) 发表:2010-10-05 09:59:19  楼主  关注此帖评分:
与大家分享一下找女佣的心得和过程这里很多妈妈准妈妈都在找不找女佣这个问题上犹豫。我们也经历这样一个阶段,不过现在这个女佣用的很习惯了,觉得没有她还真不行。写个帖子分享一下关于女佣的心得和体会吧。 一。要不要女佣,这是个问题。 利:有人帮忙作家务 弊:家里多个外人。也有可能干不好活还给你添麻烦。 必要条件:家里有女佣住的地方 花销:工资340-400,看经验和国籍。人头税:如果宝宝是新加坡人每月170,如果不是每月260。管吃管住。半年要查体,每次30,保险两年200多。平均每月支出800左右。 我们本来完全没有想过请女佣。但是出了月子,我还在休产假的时候,感觉我跟妈妈两个人每天从早忙到晚,做不完的家务。我想等我上班之后这些事情妈妈一个人做太累了,这时候想到请个女佣,我的底线是,大不了不让女佣带孩子。如果女佣能把除了孩子以外的事情都作好,我们就可以把本来擦地洗碗做饭的时间留出来跟宝宝玩。尤其是考虑到我上班以后,不想让爸爸妈妈太累。 所以当时我决定请女佣的目的就是让她做所有杂事,擦地做饭洗碗洗衣服。妈妈主要带孩子就好了。 二。开始行动 程序也不复杂。先去netmaids.net上海选。看多了profile以后心里就有数了。找个印尼的还是菲律宾的?是否需要 (more...)
受益于mango的精华帖,我也来补充点吧。
之前也是听到太多女佣得不好事情,所以一直不敢请。现在咬牙冒险请了,觉得很好,很值得。真象mango说的,会离不开了。:)由简入奢易,由奢入简难。
我也是上netmaid,不过我是双管齐下,一方面按自己的要求SEARCH MAID。看到好的立刻和相应中介联系。一方面通过ENQUIRY送出我的要求信给所有中介,这样中介们就会主动送来很多maid bio。这些bio不一定在netmaid上有。好的女佣走得快,还没上netmaid就被定了。我的要求信如下,可以给大家做个参考。一定要求email联系先,有兴趣你再联系他们,否则手机打到不知道谁是谁。
Hi, I am a working mother looking for a maid for my family mainly for following functions

- Taking care for infant
- Taking caring for general housekeeping
- Cook Chinese food (at least willing to learn)

Requirement:
- She herself should marry & have child/children. Prefer age>35.
- Have good working record( better long service in previous employers in Singapore)
- expected salary is less than $400
- transfer or ex-Singapore both can consider
- Willing to negotiate the off days plan with employer
- Speak English ( it will be more welcomed if knowing some Chinese)


Besides material details, we wish we could interview. ( face to face or phone/vedio interview)
As I am working, please send me email with bio data firstly and I can contact back when available. Thanks a lot!
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作者:妈妈宝宝 (等级:4 - 马马虎虎,发帖:1281) 发表:2010-10-05 14:30:31  2楼 评分:
受益于mango的精华帖,我也来补充点吧。之前也是听到太多女佣得不好事情,所以一直不敢请。现在咬牙冒险请了,觉得很好,很值得。真象mango说的,会离不开了。:)由简入奢易,由奢入简难。 我也是上netmaid,不过我是双管齐下,一方面按自己的要求SEARCH MAID。看到好的立刻和相应中介联系。一方面通过ENQUIRY送出我的要求信给所有中介,这样中介们就会主动送来很多maid bio。这些bio不一定在netmaid上有。好的女佣走得快,还没上netmaid就被定了。我的要求信如下,可以给大家做个参考。一定要求email联系先,有兴趣你再联系他们,否则手机打到不知道谁是谁。 Hi, I am a working mother looking for a maid for my family mainly for following functions - Taking care for infant - Taking caring for general housekeeping - Cook Chinese food (at least willing to learn) Requirement: - She herself should marry & have child/children. Prefer age>35. - Have good working record( better long service in previous employers in Singapore) - expected salary is less than $400 - transfer or ex-Singapore both can consider - Willing to negotiate the off days plan with emplo (more...)
我准备的面试问题
Q to ask:
1)What is your family? Why you come to Singapore?
2) How long do you plan to stay in Singapore?
3)What job do you help with in your previous and current employer?
4)Can we change off day? And how do you spend your off day?
5)Do you mind not to use hand phone, not make up when taking of baby?
6)What’s your expecting salary and off days?

就是通过这些简单的问题看英语能力,工作态度。我只电话面试过4个ex singapore,就订了第四个,没有面试过transfer。不考虑new。符合我要求的本来也不多,还有三个是一联系就已经没有了。所以是看到好的要决断得快。

女佣来了几天了,全家都很满意。积极主动,耐心温顺,英语好,还会点中文,能跟我婆婆鸡同鸭讲地聊天。我没有怎么训练她。就是制定了schedule让她follow。都能超额完成。比如要她上午洗衣,下午托地,结果她一上午就全搞定了。下午就主动擦家具,收拾杂物去了。不符合我们习惯的地方,教她一两次就好了。我们对她也不错,买新家具给她,吃得跟我们一样,包括水果。
是不是前面一段时间都是蜜月期呢?我是不是应该防备点?有婆婆在家就不需要remote monitor了吧?还请过来人指点。

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作者:妈妈宝宝 (等级:4 - 马马虎虎,发帖:1281) 发表:2010-10-05 14:59:17  3楼 评分:
与大家分享一下找女佣的心得和过程这里很多妈妈准妈妈都在找不找女佣这个问题上犹豫。我们也经历这样一个阶段,不过现在这个女佣用的很习惯了,觉得没有她还真不行。写个帖子分享一下关于女佣的心得和体会吧。 一。要不要女佣,这是个问题。 利:有人帮忙作家务 弊:家里多个外人。也有可能干不好活还给你添麻烦。 必要条件:家里有女佣住的地方 花销:工资340-400,看经验和国籍。人头税:如果宝宝是新加坡人每月170,如果不是每月260。管吃管住。半年要查体,每次30,保险两年200多。平均每月支出800左右。 我们本来完全没有想过请女佣。但是出了月子,我还在休产假的时候,感觉我跟妈妈两个人每天从早忙到晚,做不完的家务。我想等我上班之后这些事情妈妈一个人做太累了,这时候想到请个女佣,我的底线是,大不了不让女佣带孩子。如果女佣能把除了孩子以外的事情都作好,我们就可以把本来擦地洗碗做饭的时间留出来跟宝宝玩。尤其是考虑到我上班以后,不想让爸爸妈妈太累。 所以当时我决定请女佣的目的就是让她做所有杂事,擦地做饭洗碗洗衣服。妈妈主要带孩子就好了。 二。开始行动 程序也不复杂。先去netmaids.net上海选。看多了profile以后心里就有数了。找个印尼的还是菲律宾的?是否需要 (more...)
补充关于选中介
好和不好的中介相差很远,并且跟他们的价格没有关系。好的中介价格透明,反应迅速,给WP 号码,甚至能照你的要求改模板合同。我认为好中介很重要。女佣不好,你要通过他更换。即使不通过他更换,直接terminate service,那maid loan是否顺利refund也很有关系。保险费跟maid loan都是按比例refundable的。中介费 不可以退还。
我发了ENQUIRY之后收到的邮件里,就有直接注明各项费用的。还有只需要initial pay 2个月maid loan, 之后每个月分期付款给的。或者有maid loan credit card 0% interest monthly installment的。这就是替客户着想的中介。我有见过狮子张口要1000中介费的。Bio都不用看,直接就filter掉了。
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作者:妈妈宝宝 (等级:4 - 马马虎虎,发帖:1281) 发表:2010-10-05 15:00:21  4楼
上周末去面试一菲律宾女佣,因为没有独立卫生间,被女佣拒了。郁闷。。
不用郁闷,这样的不请比较好。
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作者:妈妈宝宝 (等级:4 - 马马虎虎,发帖:1281) 发表:2010-10-11 10:33:22  5楼 评分:
从哪里能下载maid的shedule? 还有是fresh还是experienced的女佣较好啊?谢谢
网上看到的Guideline&Schedule样板见内。New or Ex看个人需求,各有利弊。
New: 一张白纸好作画,工钱较低,1day or no day off, 工作态度可能也比较好,因为来之不易。
但之前没有记录可查,会有点冒险,可能会有个在新加坡做工的适应期,你需要事必躬亲的教几天。
Ex: 有记录可查,知道自身价值,demand可能会多点,比如工钱4xx,每月x天off. 也有可能碰上humble的ex。
New or Ex都只能电话面试。
还有一种transfer。人在新加坡,可以直接看人面试。具体transfer原因和工作记录就千差万别了。
其实不管哪种,基本都是靠RP去碰运气。不过也不必太害怕,你是雇主,是强势的一方。暂时没碰上好的,也可以等等。
网上的这个Guideline&Schedule比较严厉。可是先说清楚了比较好吧。
Guidelines

Strict Rules
Do Be Honest and Truthful. Do not lie to us.
Must be patient with baby. Do not hit our baby, but you can help to discipline him.
Drink lots of water. Stay Healthy.

Do Not Argue with Us!
Try to understand the reason why we do things this way, rather than blindly follow. If you think there is a better way to do some things, you are always welcome to suggest, but it is up to Mum if she want to change.

Do Show Initiative. Do Not Be Lazy!
If performance is good and you are obedient, we will reward you.
Do Remember what you learn.
Learn to remember our preferences.
Ask if you are not sure, please do not assume!
Before doing anything, check with Mum. E.g. changing sponge, rearranging cabinets.

Do Not Steal.
If anyone gives you anything, you must let Mum know first.
If you find money in our pockets or anywhere in the house, you must place it on the dining table and inform Mum.
If Mum gives you money to buy food, leftover money must be returned to Mum.
If you buy anything, let Mum know what you buy and how much you spent.
Only clean drawers that you are allowed to open.

Do Not Bring People to Our House!
Do Not Go into Other Maids’ Employers House!
Do Not Leave the House without Our Permission!
Do not let anyone into the house unannounced.

Do Not Talk to Men Outside! Do Not Have Boyfriends!
Do Not Compare with Other Maids! Do be prepared to follow our ways because different family does things different ways.
If you have any concerns or needs, talk to Mum, not to other maids.
Do not giving out our home phone number to your friends.

If you got no handphone. You may give our home phone number to your family for emergencies.
If you got handphone, please follow below rules.
Strictly no handphone during your working hour.
Strictly no handphone when you look after the baby.
Must answer the call from Mum and Sir.
Do not use the handphone after 11:30 pm, which may affect your energy next day.

Do Not Turn On the TV or Radio without our Permission!
Do not shift the boxes in your room without our permission.
Ask our permission if you want to use the house phone to call home.

Dress properly, dress nicely when we go out.
Change out of pyjamas before starting work.
Sleeveless, low cut tops and shorts are not allowed.

Always turn off the lights or other electrical appliances if you are leaving the room.
Please conserve water
Do remember if there’s something boiling on the stove.

Manners
Always greet us when we wake up.
Always greet us at the door when we come home and see if we need help to carry anything.
Always greet guests and offer drinks immediately.
Before sleep, check with us “Anything else you need me to do?” if there is nothing, let us know that you are going to bed.
Always answer us when we talk to you. When we ask you to answer us, please do.

Rules are rules.


Working hours:
06:30 am to 10:30 pm. Sleep 2 hours when baby sleep in the afternoon.
Take care of baby from 06:30 am to 10:00 pm.
Must stimulate and take care of baby whilst simultaneously cleaning.

Baby
06:30, Carry the baby from Mum’s bed and take care the baby from then. Including
Feed the baby. Warm the milk and wash the milk bottle. Burp the baby.
When baby grow up, always check with Mum before giving him any food or letting others give him food.
Change the diapers. Using drapolene cream and baby powder to take care baby’s nappy. Wash hands after change the diapers.
Prepare the cloths and water for bathing.Hand wash baby’s cloth, towel, and cloth diapers.
Baby will use cloth diapers from 12:00 to 20:00. Collect and hand wash the cloth diapers twice. Suggested on 16:00 and 20:00.
Play with the baby, Let them explore, just keep a watchful eye for him. Do not overly protect him.
Carry the baby once required. Clean the hands before carrying the baby.

Note:
Must be patient with baby. Do not hit our baby, but you can help to discipline him.

Washing
Hand wash baby’s clothes.
Hand wash Sir’s socks.
Hand wash floormats.
Do not wash your clothes and towels together with ours.

Cooking
Do remember if there’s something boiling on the stove.
Never leave knives, scissors and other dangerous things lying around or easy to reach by children.
Prepare some mop water before cooking. Immediately after cooking, mop the floor to remove oiliness.
Always separate raw meat with vegetables or cooked food.
Wash your hands if you have touched raw food.
Clean up as you cook.
Food cleanliness is VERY important. Dirty food or utensils not washed clean can make people sick!
Water conservation is also very important. Find the balance please.

Bathroom
Keep the bathroom neatly and dry.

Daily duties
06:30 – get up
06:30 – 08:00
Drink warm water. Take breakfast.
Feed up the baby, change the diapers when baby wake up. And let the baby continue sleeping.
Clean the living room while baby sleeps in.
08:00 - Prepare the breakfast. Check with us what we would like for breakfast on previous night.
08:30 – 11:00 - look after baby and mop floor. Cleaning the living room and bedroom.
Cleaning the bath room. Keep the table and floor neat and dry. Do the weekly duties
11:00 – 11:30 – prepare the lunch
11:30 – 12:00 – hand wash baby’s clothes while mum cooking lunch.
12:30 – 1:30 – clean the dining table and kitchen. Always keep it oilless. Wash the dishes.
1:30 – 5:30 – sleep 2 hours while baby sleeping.
Hand wash baby’s diapers. Keep each room looks neatly and clean. Continuing do the weekly duties if you can not finish it in the morning.
5:30 – 6:30 – prepare the dinner.
6:30 – 8:30 – clean the kitchen, keep it oilless. Wash the dishes and the sink. Hand wash baby’s diapers.
8:30 – 10:30 – take shower, clean the bathroom after bathing.

Weekly duties:
Monday: Bathroom and toilet.
Tuesday: Laundry.
Wednesday: Bed & Bed sheets.
Thursday: Sofa, shoe cabinet, floor mat.
Friday: kitchen & fan.
Saturday: Laundry.
Sunday: Windows. Under table, sofa & bed.
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作者:妈妈宝宝 (等级:4 - 马马虎虎,发帖:1281) 发表:2010-10-11 14:37:01  6楼
谢谢妈妈宝宝了,很有帮助。还有个问题请教。听说在mom网站上可以查到中介的信息(何时成立,有几间分店之类的),找了半天,没有看到,有没有人知道? 我想找一家好的中介公司,直接去看女佣的bio,网上太多了,有些挑花了眼。 谢谢。
Don't know the link.
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作者:妈妈宝宝 (等级:4 - 马马虎虎,发帖:1281) 发表:2010-11-02 10:57:11  7楼
关于女佣中介,可以查mom,网址如下:http://www.mom.gov.sg/foreign-manpower/employment-agencies/employment-agency-directory/Pages/employment-agency-directory.aspx
很好的信息呢。
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