我也希望你能成功!不知道你有没有这样的感觉:只是LUCK和DESPERATE是多多少少是EXCLUSIVE OF EACH OTHER的。
平和的心态,寻找和对待机会的态度,如此等等,是成功的必要条件。
回报和付出不一定成正比,但个人的预期回报和付出会成正比。付出越多,越想获得回报,人之常情。
GRADUATE RECRUITMENT 虽然大势已去,但机会还是有的。说几个例子都是有关fresh grad:
1。朋友一,毕业后在家呆了数月,通过中介找了份数月的合同,某TOP10 IB,其job scope和finance相差甚远,还是尽责地做好本职。结束
后在家又待数月。后来恰逢此IB 某FINANCE dept缺人,通过前同事的介绍,他就拿到了permanent offer.耐心可嘉!!
2。朋友二,有幸去TOP3 IB FO面试,从一面到final面,耗时4个月不止。通常都是面试完,音讯全无,隔一个月突然来个电话,再继续面试。好在她心平气和,
荣辱不惊。出人意料地却又在情理之内地一举拿下offer.心态可嘉!!
3。朋友三,行事低调,大智若愚。他一直默默向IB 努力,学习相关知识,多与相关朋友交流。等他拿到TOP IB offer的时候,很多人大吃一惊:
就凭他那样? 是的,人家只是低调罢了.努力可嘉!!
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知道你很努力地向理想前进,付出很多,却不见成果--一个满意的OFFER (more...)
Very much agree with you, utube
千万不可失败一时就一蹶不振,塞翁失马,焉知非福,
或许IB并不是最适合你的industry,不用因为一时的失败,而怨天尤人,以前学到“失败是成功之母”这句话的时候,背得很熟,现在想想,无论是工作还是生活,保持一颗平和的心态,才是成功的关键,虽然很难,但是相信自己可以做到,并且尽力去做,才可以不被生活击败,
my situation is actually even more worse than u, 心痛失败, let's jia you together. Nothing can beat us except we oursevles.
btw, my plan is that after 5 or 7 years working after my graduation, i will be going to africa to work as volunteers for the poor ppl there for rest of my life. ^^
或许IB并不是最适合你的industry,不用因为一时的失败,而怨天尤人,以前学到“失败是成功之母”这句话的时候,背得很熟,现在想想,无论是工作还是生活,保持一颗平和的心态,才是成功的关键,虽然很难,但是相信自己可以做到,并且尽力去做,才可以不被生活击败,
my situation is actually even more worse than u, 心痛失败, let's jia you together. Nothing can beat us except we oursevles.
btw, my plan is that after 5 or 7 years working after my graduation, i will be going to africa to work as volunteers for the poor ppl there for rest of my life. ^^