有什么可以改变的？

The first day you follow others, you become dependent on others, and you lose independent thinking, and become a clone CD. You follow others, twist the religion and do all type of things: like killing, war, in the glory name of religion.

Religions have been there for thousands of years. They are tools by the people, for the people, of the people.

So use the tool to get a good gf/bf is not bad!