经济拮据的家庭不代表眼界狭隘的父母，而且子女的成长不仅仅受到父母影响，还有朋友，老师，同事等。不然为何有如此多的有成就有气质的女性来自普通的甚至贫困的家庭呢？况且就拿中国而言，40-60年代出生的人，生活在一个普遍全国都物质匮乏的年代，要想靠物质“富养”女孩子，很少有家庭能做到吧。但是，正是这么物质匮乏的一个时代，仍然涌现出各个领域的女性佼佼者，有大家闺秀气质的也不少。

我比较认同精神上的富养女孩，多鼓励，多关爱，多体贴，多保护同时交会女孩子怎么保护自己，这对女性建立自信很重要，而大家闺秀的一个重要气质就是散发着自信和自重。一个女孩子对自己自信，知道自己想要什么，自然很难被金钱和物质收买。


刚去搜了一下，一些现代的女明星：
杨幂的父亲是一位民警，母亲没有工作。
张靓颖，张靓颖小时候，家庭十分平穷，而喜欢唱歌的她，为了能买到一张唱片，每天省吃俭用，终于奏起了13块钱，买了一盘的磁带。
孙俪，孙俪出生于一个普通的工人家庭，住在石库门的房子。
还有一些外国知名女性都来自特别贫穷的家庭：
1. Indra Nooyi - CEO PepsiCoNooyi is among the very few who hails from a very poor background. However, her story is equally inspiring and influential. She used to work in night shifts so as to pay for her college tuition studying her management in US.

JK Rowling - Author

Ursula Burns – Chairman and CEO, XeroxBurns was raised by her mother in downtown area of Manhattan. She used to work two shifts daily so as to send her children to school. Burns worked hard and grabbed admission in NYU. After graduating, she joined Xerox as summer intern.

Oprah Winfrey - Celebrity (The Oprah Winfrey Show)Winfrey started living with her grandparents soon after her parents divorced. For quite some time, she wore potato sacks and ate left-overs for food. However, Winfrey was not at all comfortable with this treatment. She worked hard and obtained full scholarship.