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This causes a lot of stress in the household because Chong's habits could be "overbearing", Lim conceded. The couple's second child ran away from home as a teen in 2010 because of his mother's "tendencies". He still has not returned home, Lim said.
“When asked by his lawyer if he had anything to add, Lim broke down sobbing. "It's a set of unfortunate circumstances that has led to this trial ... what (my wife) has done is not intentional, it's not evil in her heart."
"There are underlying reasons ... you cannot look at it like (we were) doing it on purpose, it's never like that", Lim said.
男主人说老婆有强迫症和厌食症,其实就说得通了
这种有强迫症的控制狂真的超级恐怖,别说对女佣,对自己孩子都非常苛刻。听说过这样一个人,禁止女儿买超过4套衣服和几双鞋,买新的衣服,旧的必须扔一套。就是这种非常细微末节的小事,不让交什么样的朋友、不让吃什么样的东西,真的把自己女儿整的很崩溃。。。所以虐待女佣真的不是没可能,女主人自己可能完全不觉得是虐待。所以这种有病的人尽量躲远一点,女佣好可怜啊。。。。