nothing is more important than love.love never conflicts with anything. people blame love but neglect their inner fear. it is the person's attitude. without love, people will be negative.
爱是一个广泛的定义,不局限于爱情
我个人的体会也是这样:年轻时候觉得不谈恋爱,没一个爱人人生简直太灰暗了。年纪渐长发现有很多更重要的事情:要拼学业,要拼事业,要努力赚钱养活自己,支持家人,父母老了需要扶持。爱情在这种情况下慢慢变成了奢侈品,因为陷入热恋必然有很多其他综合症,如果是美好的感情还好,如果是虐恋简直要了半条命,在加班,补课,奔波之间还要斗智斗勇要死要活,还真不如一个人清静。