what i thnk iswhen the time they decided to live together....the issues shuld be considered already. so one from china,one in singapore. strangers struggle in the cilvilied junggle of singapore. nothing more to expect" 1000s of resume with no reponse..all should be in her expectiona and also the husband's' what i feel : each of them has little sign of depress. most importnt, change attitude . be positibe. try another time. try until it successeful. dont give up. so maybe 1 year later, a happy couple again. for the exprience now,, they will forget in future.