1 He's Just Not That Into You If He's Not Asking You Out

2 He's Just Not That Into You If He's Not Calling You

3 He's Just Not That Into You If He's Not Dating You

4 He's Just Not That Into You If He's Not Having Sex with You

5 He's Just Not That Into You If He's Having Sex with Someone Else

6 He's Just Not That Into You If He Only Wants to See You When He's Drunk

7 He's Just Not That Into You If He Doesn't Want to Marry You

8 He's Just Not That Into You If He's Breaking Up with You

9 He's Just Not That Into You If He's Disappeared on You

10 He's Just Not That Into You If He's Married (and Other Insane Variations of Being Unavailable)

11 He's Just Not That Into You If He's a Selfish Jerk, a Bully, or a Really Big Freak

这本书的名字叫， he's just not that into you. 很直白。 明确地说明了那些男人是要不得的。书是英文的，不喜欢看英文的同志们，就看看上面列出来的几条table of contents 好了。

总的来说，真正中意你的男人一定会先邀请你出去，会打电话给你，和你约会， 他们会渴望和你有更亲密的接触，并且忠诚不二，他们会无时无刻不想见到你，并且希望你成为他的妻子。真正中意你的男人不会说分手，你也不会找不到他， 当然这个男人是单身的，并且他不自私，也没有什么其它陋习。

因为这本书是男人写的，所以分析的都挺客观。 我想，很多女孩子，爱情中不快乐，却总是为对方找理由。 其实男人都是很简单的， 如果他不能让你开心的话，那就只能说明一点，他其实并不那么中意你。

but may not be true.

which criteria in the list above are the 'maynot be true' ones in your case?

in my case it works :) it helped me to find a perfect boy!!