往事随风你相信吗？一个人可以在很爱一个人的时候离开他，过去我不信，很爱很爱又怎么会离开？现在我信了，因为伤害多到无法再接受他
今天读到这句话，放到这里，支持一下
Wonderful article! My 2 Cents (not feeling based). I am a nerd, sorry.
In Neuroscience, To get 很爱很爱 someone means you gain a complete control over his/her hormones, which are especially active in the brain's emotional center--the limbic system. And the limbic system, as one of the dominant decision makers in the brain, makes him / her to stay with you as much as possible.
But you may not get a complete control on the other major control center of the brain, the frontal cortex, the logical planning center. And frontal cortex is the most prominent one in a mature human brain. So his / her logical planning center could command him / her another way. Which could be as ^自由鸟^ said 让他/她选择自己的幸福.
To give some links on how neurosciences explain the brain and the love it generates.
http://info.med.yale.edu/chldstdy/plomdevelop/development/november.html
http://www.deathpenaltyinfo.org/article.php?scid=27&did=977
But you may not get a complete control on the other major control center of the brain, the frontal cortex, the logical planning center. And frontal cortex is the most prominent one in a mature human brain. So his / her logical planning center could command him / her another way. Which could be as ^自由鸟^ said 让他/她选择自己的幸福.
To give some links on how neurosciences explain the brain and the love it generates.
http://info.med.yale.edu/chldstdy/plomdevelop/development/november.html
http://www.deathpenaltyinfo.org/article.php?scid=27&did=977
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