You don't have much fantasy towards marriage. You think marriage is taking away your freedom and privacy, and this is what you are trying so hard to avoid. You feel very irritated when someone stops you from doing something you like, although you want to have a partner, you don't want to get married, so that you can commit all your time and effort on your career and interests. Having a fre and comfortable life is what you dream of. However, sometimes you are so attacked by loneliness, this is the time to surround youself with a group of friends...
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