苍生的意思是说男人尤其是成熟的男人可能娶的不是自己最爱的
也有可能，尤其是成熟的男人，因为最爱的不一定是最合适的，如果娶最爱的结婚成本比较高，于是索性付出小一点的代价找合适的结婚就好了。
苍生是不是这个意思？
not only that..but also include this case
your lovest doesnt love you.
then how can you get married?
the only way is to marry another one who is not your lovest.
then how can you get married?
the only way is to marry another one who is not your lovest.
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