to see if u can change team or change job internally. You can use whatever reasons you can think of, but do not mention about those trivial and ugly things happened, for which might be true, but she would never appreciate you to tell her. Remember to be positive, and have the right attitude while speaking to your boss.
Personally I don't feel that you can do anything to make the woman do you better. If the market is good, you should look for other jobs immediately. But the market is bad, so you have to be patient, and internal transfer might be a good option.
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