(引用 K-K:the beauty of diversityWhat an interesting article to read. First let me apologize for not reading every reply in this thread. ...)wah, impressive........i think you are the first person who replies my topic in english in considerable length. I admire that!
It's definitely interesting to know a guy's perspective, actually the original intention of my post is exactly that, i wanna know what the guys are thinking while going for online dating, because i am not sure whether i am being too judgmental or the guys i met are totally "unique". Thanks for the insight, and i really appreciate it.
After the online dating experience, i have going into phase 2, which is speed dating. That's a refreshing experience for me too! Maybe i will write another article about that, hahaha..........
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(引用 bbcat:wah, impressive........i think you are the first person who replies my topic in english in considerable length. I admire that! ...)thanks for the replyJust a small note to point out - i don't think we shall call this 'the guys' perspective' and call that 'what the girls think'. I'm probably in the minority, so are you, IMO. Just my .02...[K-K (9-11 22:29, Long long ago)] [ 传统版 | sForum ][登录后回复]242楼
突然想到。。。
曾经有个朋友对我说过，很多女生吃饭，穿衣，买东西都那么挑，到找男朋友或者老公的时候怎么可能不挑！
后来想想的确如此，而且现在是供方市场，感觉任何一个女生周围都有一大堆跃跃欲试的男生，她们不挑，岂不是对不起自己！
不知道是男人的悲哀，还是女人的悲哀。。。
PS：只是突然想到的，和LZ没有关系，不是针对LZ，呵呵。。。[hail99 (11-22 9:07, Long long ago)]
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The article is well written. Thanks for sharing.I can see you are a sincere person. I wish to make friends with you. If you like, you can contact me by email hairong04@hotmail.com. Good luck for your searching of BF.[sadstory (12-9 12:47, Long long ago)] [ 传统版 | sForum ][登录后回复]244楼
(引用 hail99:突然想到。。。 曾经有个朋友对我说过，很多女生吃饭，穿衣，买东西都那么挑，到找男朋友或者老公的时候怎么可能不挑！ 后来想想的确如�...)没关系的，谢谢留言，有感而发很好[bbcat (12-24 23:06, Long long ago)] [ 传统版 | sForum ][登录后回复]245楼
(引用 sadstory:The article is well written. Thanks for sharing.I can see you are a sincere person. I wish to make friends with you. If you like...)thanks for the encouragement, i will keep searching.......[bbcat (12-24 23:08, Long long ago)] [ 传统版 | sForum ][登录后回复]246楼
There is nothing wrong to be shorter or youngerMarried, boring, or insincere guys are not accepted.
But I dont think short and young guys are unacceptable .
Many great man are not tall at all, such as napoleon, Deng xiao ping. ( the most important part of the body is above the neck)
Younger is not sin to be a man, in current world, more and more young guys become mature enough at their young age. They knew much better than some "old" guys.
In fact, I do encourage girls who could not find their Mr.Right at this time, dont set so high standards to the fellow men.
Instead of outside appearance, you need to see the inside beautify of the man.
Be a smart girl, find your dream guy who really cares you and loves you and will die for you .
FYI, I am 25, married , I am not the kind of man in any categories you referred.
And I do wish everyone can find their dream guy and girl in their life.
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(引用 hail99:突然想到。。。
曾经有个朋友对我说过，很多女生吃饭，穿衣，买东西都那么挑，到找男朋友或者老公的时候怎么可能不挑！
后来想想的确如�...)现在不完全是供方市场而且现在是供方市场，感觉任何一个女生周围都有一大堆跃跃欲试的男生，她们不挑，岂不是对不起自己！
身边总是有那么多的大龄单身女同事，很多找我给他们介绍好的男友，其实越是条件好的女生越是找不到合适的，这个已经有很多人讨论过了，什么白骨精，三高，剩女，都是指的她们。所以阿，女生们，还是不要太挑了，等错过了你们的黄金年龄还没有找到合适的人，你们会后悔莫及的。
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(引用 hendry:There is nothing wrong to be shorter or youngerMarried, boring, or insincere guys are not accepted.
But I dont think short and ...)it's just a personal preferencefor shorter guys, if you wanna self-comfort, you can always refer to historical figures who are height challenged. but let's face it, you are not preferred in the eyes of natural selection.
for younger guys, what's wrong with you? can't you find younger girls? why resort to find elder sister to look after you? Be a man!
Overall, it's just my personal preference, yes it's super biased, I apologize. After all, i am not looking for just marriage. [bbcat (1-5 19:34, Long long ago)]
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奉劝一句， 不要把自己看得太高了否这很容易奔40的 [Dinosaur (6-12 21:43, Long long ago)] [ 传统版 | sForum ][登录后回复]250楼
(引用 Dinosaur:奉劝一句， 不要把自己看得太高了否这很容易奔40的 )每次想起40 左右 单生female 朋友，都感到很心酸[Dinosaur (6-12 21:49, Long long ago)] [ 传统版 | sForum ][登录后回复]251楼
(引用 Dinosaur:每次想起40 左右 单生female 朋友，都感到很心酸)给这片GRE 作文5.5 分[Dinosaur (6-12 21:52, Long long ago)] [ 传统版 | sForum ][登录后回复]252楼
哇塞，华丽的4000多点击。。。[印象派 (12-26 12:54, Long long ago)] [ 传统版 | sForum ][登录后回复]253楼
we believe all posts are created equalhowever, some are more popular...[毒鼠强 (12-26 19:24, Long long ago)] [ 传统版 | sForum ][登录后回复]254楼
old post...up again...you must have date a lot online to get this list...better to do a statistical analysis to prove that the categorization is significant
could you come out with a list of girls who date online? what categories do you have? which category do you belong to?
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(引用 昌昊:在新加坡是男人比较牛，20%的女人终身嫁不出！没牛对地方！)I know 3 single antie (>40)one is nice person, the other two are terrible...[Nemo (12-29 23:09, Long long ago)] [ 传统版 | sForum ][登录后回复]256楼
(引用 毒鼠强:we believe all posts are created equalhowever, some are more popular...)the postto check if the activeness of this topic....[毒鼠强 (1-1 12:14, Long long ago)] [ 传统版 | sForum ][登录后回复]257楼
(引用 毒鼠强:the postto check if the activeness of this topic....)。。。[毒鼠强 (1-29 9:17, Long long ago)] [ 传统版 | sForum ][登录后回复]258楼
貌似在网上征友遇见以上8种的人的概率很大的说。
某人没有征友却不幸地遭遇了几个。
偶乖乖地回家看病去喽。[wink (1-29 9:30, Long long ago)]
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帅有钱又会玩的男人早就被更好的女人预定了，有点次货用用聊胜于无呗[二十一日上天 (1-29 13:10, Long long ago)] [ 传统版 | sForum ][登录后回复]260楼