(引用 bbcat:说的很有道理, 不过生活中碰到的男生毕竟少啊, 可能我的缘分还没有到吧.)缘分会来的，我觉得你是个很真诚很直率的人，一定有一个好男人在等你[littlefish (11-16 10:49, Long long ago)] [ 传统版 | sForum ][登录后回复]21楼

when you see the reviewer give comments about a honor yr proj proposalmost likely one word:

interesting[无聊至极 (11-16 11:36, Long long ago)] [ 传统版 | sForum ][登录后回复]22楼

居然用英语的。。。强。怎么date 啊。。。谈情说爱用英语。。汗。。。。。[小土 (11-16 13:14, Long long ago)] [ 传统版 | sForum ][登录后回复]23楼

有没有pp放张看看亚[guo_er (11-16 13:40, Long long ago)] [ 传统版 | sForum ][登录后回复]24楼

(引用 bbcat:ya think so too, it's so hard and tiring.)面包会有的 :)add oil ![谁的钱包 (11-16 13:47, Long long ago)] [ 传统版 | sForum ][登录后回复]25楼

(引用 小土:居然用英语的。。。强。怎么date 啊。。。谈情说爱用英语。。汗。。。。。)不至于拉, 谈情说爱当然还是用母语啊, 不过我的中文表达能力确实不强, 所以写的话估计还是用英文比较流畅.
这就让我想起来, 有的男生中文学得比我还差, 英文不好也就算了, 怎么中文都讲不好? 真是让我大跌眼镜. 因为我比较看重交流, 所以如果男生中文还没我好, 多半我会觉得这个男生也没什么出息了.(可能带有些偏见吧)
[bbcat (11-16 17:43, Long long ago)] [ 传统版 | sForum ][登录后回复]26楼

(引用 zizi:我是觉得姐姐运气不好不过要这样想，不满意的男人见一个少一个，下一次见到好男人的机会就增加了一分^_^)运气不好而已吗? 不过你的想法很乐观啊, 我喜欢.[bbcat (11-16 17:44, Long long ago)] [ 传统版 | sForum ][登录后回复]27楼

(引用 administrator:很有教育意义的文章, 希望征友的男性们都能仔细看一下.知己知彼, 百战不殆... 版主暂时不在, 打分我就代劳了. 也希望bbcat能早日找到自�)谢谢咯, 终于也拿到红心了. *_*[bbcat (11-16 17:45, Long long ago)] [ 传统版 | sForum ][登录后回复]28楼

(引用 bbcat:不至于拉, 谈情说爱当然还是用母语啊, 不过我的中文表达能力确实不强, 所以写的话估计还是用英文比较流畅. 这就让我想起来, 有的男生中文...)莫非是一见你激动了，于是就开始结巴...猜测而已[鱼片粥 (11-16 18:19, Long long ago)] [ 传统版 | sForum ][登录后回复]29楼

unattached, Non-ONS, tall, mature, interesting, confident, true, Non-eroticMan exists or not.

If exist, then he mostly like is unconfident since he even not attached. Contradiction.

[无聊至极 (11-16 18:43, Long long ago)] [ 传统版 | sForum ][登录后回复]30楼

(引用 bbcat:不至于拉, 谈情说爱当然还是用母语啊, 不过我的中文表达能力确实不强, 所以写的话估计还是用英文比较流畅. 这就让我想起来, 有的男生中文...)我也觉得交流很重要但是不是那种能说会道 ，口若悬河的。。。用中文那样就够念经，了，要是英文。天啊，杀了我吧。。

恐怖。。。[小土 (11-16 20:41, Long long ago)] [ 传统版 | sForum ][登录后回复]31楼

(引用 鱼片粥:莫非是一见你激动了，于是就开始结巴...猜测而已)嘿嘿。。。有的是一见特中意，就打开了话瞎子。
[小土 (11-16 20:42, Long long ago)] [ 传统版 | sForum ][登录后回复]32楼

(引用 无聊至极:unattached, Non-ONS, tall, mature, interesting, confident, true, Non-eroticMan exists or not. If exist, then he mostly like is...)don't really get what you mean......are you saying i am expecting too much?i am aware that i am not perfect either, and it's not reasonable to ask for a perfect bf/husband, but i can't force myself to accept someone who is repulsive, irresponsible, obnoxious and dirty-minded (that's just me). I don't want to find someone to get married just because i am getting older each day, and i don't want to get married just because peer pressure and family pressure. If such man doesn't exist, i would rather stay single, probably will lead a happier and better life that way. [bbcat (11-16 21:22, Long long ago)] [ 传统版 | sForum ][登录后回复]33楼

that is rather unfortunate...Just my personal opinion, chances are slim if you go online with a mindset to search for Mr. Right.

It's just like arranged matchmaking... just that you arrange it for yourself.

The first date becomes a test, no cocktail, no appetizer, things don't get developed...

It's like an interview or exam, the poor guy is either be a totally disqualified, lousy person or a nervous, cautious interviewee.

[大象 (11-16 22:20, Long long ago)] [ 传统版 | sForum ][登录后回复]34楼

What a case study of Human Behavior from online dating!Pretty interestin', never realized there is such a perceived image through online dating.

Between Men and Women, Self-identity online, Self perception online, self-expectation online, role conflict between reality and virtual world, and Self Efficacy from virtual to real world, emerge and contrast phenomenally!

Theoretically, it could be possible to draft a paper out of it. But I am studying org. behavior, rather than human behavior.


Anyway, luckily, I have never tried to discover the harsh reality of online dating.
However, unluckily, I have one fewer means of finding a partner.
Somehow, luckily or otherwise, virtual world has evolved into its current state.[Transhumanist (11-16 22:45, Long long ago)] [ 传统版 | sForum ][登录后回复]35楼

(引用 Transhumanist:What a case study of Human Behavior from online dating!Pretty interestin', never realized there is such a perceived image throug...)Btw, there is a game called 2nd life of virtual world, which my pal is writing aBtw, there is a game called 2nd life of virtual world, which a pal of mine from Copenhagen business school is writing a paper about.

Life is just more and more interesting.[Transhumanist (11-16 22:49, Long long ago)] [ 传统版 | sForum ][登录后回复]36楼

看到大家反应热烈, 积极讨论, 甚是高兴, 看来没有白写. 我想....能否起到抛砖引玉的功能呢, 哪个男生也写篇类似的文章?
因为我是女生, 所以很难了解另一边的想法, 如果有男生不吝分享一下, 对大家都有帮助的吧.
可能遇到的恐怖, 可怕, 讨厌的女生中我也是其中一类呢 &_&[bbcat (11-17 0:15, Long long ago)] [ 传统版 | sForum ][登录后回复]37楼

(引用 Transhumanist:What a case study of Human Behavior from online dating!Pretty interestin', never realized there is such a perceived image throug...)有人也是这样跟我说, 说如果SAMPLE SIZE大一点, 就可以作为社会调查报告了, ^_^[bbcat (11-17 0:17, Long long ago)] [ 传统版 | sForum ][登录后回复]38楼

(引用 羊肉泡馍:一共8类人，没类不多算，2-3个，也有20个了，每一个看的上眼的看来眼光挺搞的 说真的，看这个帖子的感觉就是 你在ZARA, Guess, Topman里�...)泡馍是属于极品的那种男人gucci中的gucci[飞儿 (11-17 2:37, Long long ago)] [ 传统版 | sForum ][登录后回复]39楼

(引用 飞儿:泡馍是属于极品的那种男人gucci中的gucci)思想有多远，你就滚多远， muahahaha,改天出来喝酒[羊肉泡馍 (11-17 10:09, Long long ago)] [ 传统版 | sForum ][登录后回复]40楼