(引用 fff:太可爱了 小天使一样你不要送我好了。。 给我家宝宝作伴)^^生之前害怕出来是个小魔鬼后来才知道，不管孩子好不好看难不难养闹不闹，看着娃一天天长大成精真的好满足啊：）说句不好听的，多年后父母没了老公再去世得比自己早的话，子女才是唯一的亲人哈 [本文发送自华新iOS APP] [小馋牛 (7-12 19:53, Long long ago)] [ 传统版 | sForum ][登录后回复]101楼
抱抱楼主孩子是无辜的，你好好待这个宝宝，你会发现你的孩子才是这个世界上最爱你的人。
父母其实只能说他们已经尽力了，送给楼主一张感动我的图片
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(引用 甜甜不糖:不配产检就不配 我可以接受没陪产检也没在家，但是回家来 对我做的饭 打扫卫生指三到四 就让我生气。 我抽了他几耳光。 就安静了。 根�...)道理不需要对你说了，你也听不进，也理解不了。你现在最急需的是一个专业的心理医生。希望你的家人能重视并帮你找医生，要不这样下去令人堪忧啊！ [本文发送自华新iOS APP] [林子99 (7-12 20:41, Long long ago)] [ 传统版 | sForum ][登录后回复]103楼
(引用 甜甜不糖:一坨子烂肉在我身体里 我就有权力 去什么警局。
有本事自己从天上掉下来 拍拍屁股自己活着啊。
不死的话 就送人。 爱怎样怎样。有本�...)不能这样 万一把孩子弄坏你一辈子无法解脱。
看医生吧，或者把极端的情绪在这发泄出来。
我觉得你一定会走出来的。
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(引用 小馋牛:躺在产床时我还问护士，娃不好看的话可以送人么生前真的查过这方面资料，不过貌似新加坡不允许这个～怀孕那会只觉得娃踢腿时很好玩，几乎 ...)歪楼完美成功！美美哒 [本文发送自华新iOS APP] [flame (7-12 21:06, Long long ago)] [ 传统版 | sForum ][登录后回复]105楼
(引用 flame:歪楼完美成功！美美哒)捂脸。。只是想告诉lz她未来生命里的阳光值得她守护 [本文发送自华新iOS APP] [小馋牛 (7-12 21:13, Long long ago)] [ 传统版 | sForum ][登录后回复]106楼
(引用 甜甜不糖:一坨子烂肉在我身体里 我就有权力 去什么警局。
有本事自己从天上掉下来 拍拍屁股自己活着啊。
不死的话 就送人。 爱怎样怎样。有本�...)刚才打了很多字全没了但是还是想说，做事之前考虑好后果，能承担的了再做。不要最后不能承担，却摔锅给别人，比如父母没有提醒之类，难道自己不会主动了解吗？
再比如孕晚期终止妊娠或遗弃婴儿，这种行为可能犯法，你做好可能坐牢的准备了吗？
希望楼主只是在这里发发牢骚，毕竟网上谁都不认识谁。
另外，这个世界没有完美的人生，人也都有自私的地方。但老天一定会准备好适合你的给你，虽然目前你可能不明白。比如楼主想脱离父母，不是来了新加坡吗？
一切都会好起来的。
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(引用 甜甜不糖:一坨子烂肉在我身体里 我就有权力 去什么警局。 有本事自己从天上掉下来 拍拍屁股自己活着啊。 不死的话 就送人。 爱怎样怎样。有本�...)lz你这样说真的太欠抽了作为一个母亲对你关于你自己的孩子的种种言语零容忍。也不觉得你的病是抑郁症可以解释的～ [本文发送自华新iOS APP] [QQMM (7-12 21:30, Long long ago)] [ 传统版 | sForum ][登录后回复]108楼
楼主看看劝你的你也听不下去，不如睡之前看下《楢山节考》吧，生命得以延续，老了才有所依靠。 [本文发送自华新iOS APP] [natalieeee (7-12 21:45, Long long ago)] [ 传统版 | sForum ][登录后回复]109楼
(引用 QQMM:lz你这样说真的太欠抽了作为一个母亲对你关于你自己的孩子的种种言语零容忍。也不觉得你的病是抑郁症可以解释的～)忧郁症或精神分裂症可以解释,只是别人不懂而已[华生之友 (7-12 21:48, Long long ago)] [ 传统版 | sForum ][登录后回复]110楼
(引用 Babytaz:楼主可能过于劳累楼主怀孕期间可能一直孤单承受着压力和变化，又得不到身边人的支持，所以有了怨恨的情绪。
父母也是人，不是神，他们以...)看到层主的第三段，想起了我听过的心理咨询师高浩荣的节目，题为“一切都是父母的错？”，或是“没有完美的父母”。听了那期节目以后，我的心心境转念很多，对父母的抱怨从那个点以后开始逐渐释然。
“楼主有了今天的眼界，请别忘记那是一路上有人替你挡风遮雨让你无后顾之忧的去闯。”赞层主这句。
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(引用 甜甜不糖:一坨子烂肉在我身体里 我就有权力 去什么警局。 有本事自己从天上掉下来 拍拍屁股自己活着啊。 不死的话 就送人。 爱怎样怎样。有本�...)楼主可以联系领养电视剧里不是有那种养父母从产房就把孩子抱走的吗？既然那么不爱，就送给那些想要孩子缺无法得到的夫妻吧。对楼主和孩子都是好事。 [本文发送自华新iOS APP] [HelloThere (7-12 23:50, Long long ago)] [ 传统版 | sForum ][登录后回复]112楼
http://www.lovelybabyadoption.com/adoption-vs-abortion.htmlAdoption Vs Abortion
Foreign Baby AdoptionYou have come to a crossroads and you're trying to make a decision. It takes a lot of courage to realize that your life cannot include a baby at this time.
Unplanned pregnancies happen. They can't be undone, but now you can make an informed decision about the future of you and your unborn baby.
Now that you have decided not to keep your baby there is another important step. You must now choose to have an abortion or gift your child to a loving family. Let's take a look at both choices.
Only you know what the right choice is for you. It is important to not let anyone pressure you or force you into a decision that does not feel right for you. This is a major decision that will shape your future.
Abortion:
Pros - Having an abortion is immediate. You can choose from the available procedures, come in for the procedure and leave the office no longer pregnant. The office will usually provide you with counseling or at least refer you for counseling services.
Cons - Having an abortion can have major health consequences. In some cases you may be left infertile. Friends and family may make judgments against you based on moral and religious beliefs. There is a lot of pain after the abortion and you will have some down time for recovery.
You need to research abortion to see which ones are available for you based on how far along you are in your pregnancy. You will need to bring someone with you for the procedure to drive you home and take care of you while you recover.
Adoption:
Pros - There are a lot of options to choose from, services available, and community resources to help you. When you choose an adoption agency they will help you find resources to help in the process. Often when you choose adoption you can get funding to pay for your prenatal care, hospital bills, and housing. You are able to choose a family that will be the best match for how you want your child raised and have the ability to build a relationship with them.
Cons - You will have to take care of yourself and watch what you eat and drink closely during the pregnancy. You will be obviously pregnant and you will be asked about what happened to your baby. You must be prepared to discuss this with people or find a way to divert questions. There are medical risks involved with giving birth as well as some physical changes that will occur.
Remember, this is your decision. Asking and communicating with the people in your life is a good start but don't allow anyone to push you towards one choice or another. Before you go forward with your decision, imagine a family who cannot have a child. They wait for years for someone to choose them as a family. Choosing to adopt out your baby is the most courageous and selfless act a woman can do. You create a miracle for a family and choose an awesome and stable future for your child.
Contact us now for a free informational meeting to discuss on abortion vs adoption.
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(引用 QQMM:lz你这样说真的太欠抽了作为一个母亲对你关于你自己的孩子的种种言语零容忍。也不觉得你的病是抑郁症可以解释的～)排这个楼主你嘴巴可以收敛一些吗
快去看医生吧
把孩子送人
别拖累了孩子
反正我们怎么安慰怎么开导你也是听不进去
好恐怖的帖子
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抑郁症，放过自己的孩子吧孩子最是无辜 [本文发送自华新iOS APP] [weareone (7-13 7:38, Long long ago)] [ 传统版 | sForum ][登录后回复]115楼
听说生出来就会爱上孩子的 [本文发送自华新iOS APP] [Calicocat (7-13 8:04, Long long ago)] [ 传统版 | sForum ][登录后回复]116楼
(引用 Calicocat:听说生出来就会爱上孩子的)我就是这样以前各种不喜欢小孩
还准备丁克了
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你已经疯了急需治疗[小菩提 (7-13 10:36, Long long ago)] [ 传统版 | sForum ][登录后回复]118楼
(引用 甜甜不糖:一坨子烂肉在我身体里 我就有权力 去什么警局。
有本事自己从天上掉下来 拍拍屁股自己活着啊。
不死的话 就送人。 爱怎样怎样。有本�...)楼主自己一开始不也是一坨子烂肉在你妈妈的肚子里吗？难道你是从天上掉下来，拍拍屁股自己长大的吗？
不是一样没本事需要麻烦别人才能平安长大吗？
如果你的妈妈对你像你对你的孩子这样恶毒，你会是什么样子呢？
虽然没经过你的同意，你的爸妈就把你生出来了，但起码你是健康的，你是被爱的。那你的孩子呢？他也是没经过他同意，你们就把带到这个世界的，你这样恶毒，他会是健康的吗？他是被爱的吗？他被你带到这个世上受苦，都得不到自己妈妈的爱护，你不觉得自己罪大恶极吗？
不管你自己是多么的淡然，自我，不食人间烟火，但对于一个因为你而产生的一个无辜生命，还是要负起责任，给他保护，让他活的轻松一些[笨笨2014 (7-13 11:07, Long long ago)]
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