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Is It Better to Win Bronze Than Silver?

Imagine that for most of your life, you have been preparing for the Olympics. You are intensely competitive, and you badly want to win. But you know that in your event, only one person can win Olympic gold, and that only three can bring home a medal. Silver is better than bronze, of course; it’s great to be third in the world, but it’s even better to be second.

Or is it?

Research suggests that in the Olympics, those who finish third are likely to be a lot happier than those who finish second. The reason is that much of our thinking is based on counterfactuals. We like to ask: What else could have happened?

If you finish second, you tend to think that with a little good luck, or maybe a bit of extra effort or skill, you might have gotten the prize of a lifetime: Olympic gold. But if you finish third, you tend to think that with a little bad luck, or without that extra effort or skill, you wouldn’t have gotten the prize of a lifetime: an Olympic medal.

The central evidence was compiled in 1995 by three researchers, Victoria Medvec, now at the Kellogg School of Management at Northwestern University, Thomas Gilovich of Cornell University and Scott Madey, now at Shippensburg University. They asked 20 objective observers -- people with little or no interest in sports -- to watch clips of a set of silver and bronze medalists, both immediately after their events and on the medal stand. The observers were asked to “code” the happiness of the athletes on a scale of 0 to 8.

The observers, who made their decisions independently, showed quite strong agreement with one another (thus suggesting that the same results would be found with a larger number of them). The results were unambiguous: The bronze medalists were a lot happier. Immediately after the event, their mean rating was 7.1, close to the highest score and far higher than the 4.8 for silver medalists. On the medal stand, the ratings went a bit down for both, but the bronze medalists were still far ahead: 5.7 compared with 4.3.

Medvec and her colleagues also studied interviews of silver and bronze medal winners after their events. They asked a group of observers to rate the athletes’ comments, in those interviews, on a 10-point scale, which was meant to capture gratification or instead disappointment, with “1” meaning “at least I got a medal” and “10” meaning “I almost did better.”

Here too the results were clear. The silver medalists were at an average 5.7 on the 10-point scale, meaning that they were thinking a fair bit about how they could have gotten the gold. By contrast, the bronze medalists were at just 2.37, meaning that they were basking in their own achievement, and weren't making comparisons with those who did better.

These findings are worth keeping in mind as we watch the reactions, sometimes disappointed and sometimes exuberant, of those who fall a bit short in Sochi. They also have broader implications, covering circumstances and events of many kinds. Much of the time, our emotional reactions depend on counterfactuals.

For example, travelers are almost certainly more upset to miss a train or a flight by 5 minutes than by 30 minutes. If you get a 3 percent raise, your reaction is likely to depend on whether you focus on the equivalent of the gold (a 10 percent raise) or instead on something akin to no medal at all (a frozen salary). If you manage to survive a serious illness, you will be a lot better off if you focus on the bad counterfactual (death) than on the good one (not getting the illness at all).

A brilliant Swedish movie from 1985, "My Life As a Dog," tells the tale of Ingemar, a 12-year-old boy who suffers a stream of misfortunes, including the terminal illness of his mother. Amid his struggles, Ingemar has a catchphrase, almost a mantra: “It's important to have things to compare with.”

As comparison points, Ingemar chooses terrible tragedies, such as train wrecks and motorcycle accidents. He concludes that in contrast with those in his comparison set, he has been pretty lucky.

Most of us can't dream of competing in the Olympics, but our well-being often depends on whether we focus on how close we came to the gold -- or on how fortunate we were to grab the bronze.

(Cass R. Sunstein, the Robert Walmsley University professor at Harvard Law School, is a Bloomberg View columnist. He is a former administrator of the White House Office of Information and Regulatory Affairs, the co-author of “Nudge” and author of “Conspiracy Theories and Other Dangerous Ideas,” forthcoming in March.)

To contact the writer of this article: Cass R. Sunstein at csunstei@law.harvard.edu.
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都说了不是喷了。。算了您继续自言自语自挂马甲吧~~~~ 青空   (0 bytes , 65reads )
我擦我说了两遍我没喷人…你直接无视然后开始说教了? 青空   (191 bytes , 66reads )
你发言之前也要考虑下别人感受啊,别瞎针对人 方兰生   (20 bytes , 93reads )
球正事做····闲的蛋疼 天行   (0 bytes , 59reads )
对楼主遭遇深表同情,这个版主还私自泄露用户隐私,没一点职业道德。 方兰生   (0 bytes , 101reads )
这个不知道。去看看 ninilola   (0 bytes , 63reads )
咦,这个yp的还没被ban么? 小叶女贞   (0 bytes , 69reads )
小叶说我被钻石刺伤了眼睛不是中伤 今天你华新了吗   (60 bytes , 80reads )
男的女的啊,男的欺负女孩子不乖啊 Aether   (79 bytes , 69reads )
小叶说你你就说她去啊,说我这是个什么事呢 小妖霖霖   (18 bytes , 78reads )
这不是在你地盘嘛 今天你华新了吗   (58 bytes , 106reads )
哎 又偷换概念,也没回答我说你偷换概念的事。 小妖霖霖   (22 bytes , 79reads )
其实你最厉害了,版主大人。 ninilola   (50 bytes , 99reads )
好吧我回帖的时候我只看了主帖,没看后面那些回复,主帖不是这个意思、至少我[…] 小妖霖霖   (229 bytes , 76reads )
点32个赞~ alive   (0 bytes , 74reads )
心情和他乡两个版主互相顶,真有趣 今天你华新了吗   (14 bytes , 93reads )
互相。。??? 青空   (0 bytes , 78reads )
点32个赞 小叶女贞   (0 bytes , 90reads )
点赞~! yukimura05   (0 bytes , 75reads )
出门去厕所接水这段太搞了。。。。 Contax   (0 bytes , 98reads )
八姐的回帖总是那么犀利! 小妖霖霖   (0 bytes , 79reads )
话是这么说, ninilola   (78 bytes , 141reads )
我觉得不光是华新的问题 Itachi   (24 bytes , 113reads )
论坛风气全看管理员,华新的管理者不做工啊,请的些什么版主 方兰生   (0 bytes , 94reads )
我今天在艳遇帖里已经说了,我是花钱当的版主,只要给华新交钱,就可以当版主[…] 小妖霖霖   (100 bytes , 90reads )
这么不负责任的回帖,亏你好意思 今天你华新了吗   (0 bytes , 82reads )
我是认真的。华新搬迁服务器,怕不稳定,至少半年内两边服务器都在交钱。 小妖霖霖   (48 bytes , 88reads )
你的意思是交维护费就可以当版主? 今天你华新了吗   (0 bytes , 77reads )
哈哈哈,不由想给您手动点个赞!!! Contax   (6 bytes , 110reads )
无脑喷,回复你完全是在侮辱我的智商 方兰生   (0 bytes , 97reads )
U can u up lah! OCD   (29 bytes , 248reads )
哈哈哈点赞~~~顺便虎摸无辜被喷的楼上 小妖霖霖   (0 bytes , 85reads )
什么意思? 方兰生   (24 bytes , 87reads )
真的太好学了! OCD   (163 bytes , 140reads )
哟,清空的亲友团啊 方兰生   (12 bytes , 113reads )
侮辱性言论 administrator   (0 bytes , 71reads )
不需要是亲友团,看帖子的明眼人都看得见。 OCD   (58 bytes , 131reads )
我骂的是狗。。。没骂人 ,不是针对你啊。。。真的不是针对你 方兰生   (0 bytes , 111reads )
呵呵。 OCD   (302 bytes , 120reads )
去吧去吧,你几岁小孩阿,被人骂狗还呵呵,我去年买了个表 方兰生   (0 bytes , 93reads )
noway!这人想up也不行,绝对不可万万不可 小叶女贞   (0 bytes , 68reads )
淡定呗淡定呗 Itachi   (146 bytes , 123reads )
所以我不回国呀。 ninilola   (24 bytes , 132reads )
那就多比比不如你的呗 Itachi   (70 bytes , 139reads )
的确如此。快挂了。 ninilola   (2 bytes , 124reads )
你这心态太极端了 Itachi   (28 bytes , 82reads )
别生气了阿,不要因为别人事情伤了自己的心啊~ AllenC   (371 bytes , 133reads )
谢谢你的安慰。 ninilola   (56 bytes , 106reads )
没什么的 江南骑马Style   (32 bytes , 123reads )
淡定 ffnffn   (36 bytes , 127reads )
那是以前。 ninilola   (154 bytes , 123reads )
求银行收了我吧。。。 ffnffn   (0 bytes , 105reads )
我以为你在银行。 ninilola   (1 bytes , 121reads )
不错了。第一次加薪只有120 灵山   (19 bytes , 123reads )
年薪阿亲 ffnffn   (12 bytes , 112reads )
是啊,比我好嘛! 灵山   (0 bytes , 119reads )